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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH has been awful - terrorizing me for months, lots of emotional and verbal abuse. I have a therapist, and every online source, including Dr Ramani would point to the fact that this marriage is over. Yet I feel horrible ending a marriage of 20 years. I am very conflicted.[/quote]

If you want to give it a last try so you don't end up regretting giving up without a good fight, attend marriage counseling with him for six months. If he isn't willing to go and fight for a better marriage then there isn't much you can do. [/quote]

I didn’t know how. He’s been so awful, I don’t want to speak with him or look at him. When I hear his voice on the phone (he’s been away for a new job for 2 weeks), I feel like I have PTSD. He repeatedly told me to die/go to my grave/he’ll ship off my coffin etc. I had to go to a hotel because it was so bad for a few days.[/quote]

Do NOT go to couples therapy with someone like this. Couples therapy is NOT advised when there is any type of abuse going on. Please look into taking steps to leave this person.

- a marriage counselor [/quote]

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