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[quote=Anonymous]I don’t think you personally have a responsibility. Now that they’re adults, I agree with PP who suggested you give them his belongings. It sounds like it’s still emotional for you though - that your ex hurt you. It might be affecting your delivery- ie you might sound more harsh and cold than you intended. Your son is 29. Does he understand what you went through? I think it’s okay to say that you respect that he was their father but that their father hurt you very much and your son needs to respect your choice to not honour his death the way your son wants to. On your son’s side, probably a lot of mixed feelings about the divorce still. Maybe a lesson in empathy so he doesn’t turn out like dad. Hopefully not too late.[/quote]
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