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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was the woman in that situation. I adored the guy, but having a family was more important to me so I ended it. Eventually he came around and we did end up getting married and having our own child. I also made it clear this wasn’t a favor he was doing for me, he would still be equally as responsible (I know couples where the husband didn’t want kids and did it as a “favor”, so mom takes on all the childcare. I was not willing to do that). We’re happy, although blended families are hard. Sometimes I do wish I had waited for a man without his own kids, but I don’t know if he and I would have gotten along as well as H and I do.[/quote] I’m sure your step kids aren’t happy with a constant presence in their lives who wishes they didn’t exist. I’m sure your DH is a great catch though to have got someone like you. [/quote]
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