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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Trust me and trust yourself: If you’re asking, you likely already know what the answer is.

Everyone here talks about how crappy a wife is for using FindMy, but that’s exactly how I FoundMy husband cheating.

He had given me a story about running late from work (again) that just didn’t sit right. My intuition was setting off alarm bells so I looked. I actually posted about it here, that my husband was in a random parking lot, and everyone told me I was a crazy, possessive busy body, that no wonder he was sitting in a parking lot enjoying peace.

So for months I ignored what was likely happening right in front of me, thinking myself overbearing and intrusive, because a bunch of strangers on the internet said as much and shamed me. And so for months he continued cheating, until he got an STI and came clean. Thankfully I hadn’t caught it, but how stupid of me to listed to these idiots here.

Please, trust yourself gut, and do whatever you need to do, WITHOUT GUILT, to get to the bottom of things. [/quote]

I did not tell you that you were crazy. I told you he was cheating and then everyone attacked me too.  lol

Been there.  Sorry it sucks massively.

I will add I agree with the person that says all the sudden being more attentive: started calling me in middle of day (I WAH) and at times he knew I was in exercise class—I think to make sure I was occupied.

He also would start laying foundation about he might have to go into office for a few hours on his WAH day.

We still had sex so that was no sign.

He did have more moods. And sometimes anger that seemed to come from nowhere- more critical which I wrote off to work stress (he does have a stressful job). Could be a critical @sshole that had us walking on eggshells.

He started not liking our friends.  Everyone was boring to him.  These were very good couple friends that we had known for years.

He did have new interest in certain cooking/recipes/cocktails that his married sah ap told him about—that should have been obvious since I always cooked, etc.

Often times it is so subtle that with a busy life, your own job, kids, aging parents, sports activities, etc…you don’t have time to notice.  [/quote]

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