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[quote=Anonymous]Depends on whether she can get someone better. I mean most people want to procreate and prefer to do it with a partner, and most people try to get the best partner they can get. I used to be married to a person with undiagnosed adhd. He was the best I could get at the time. If someone told me I should hurry up and not wait until I am in my early 30s, someone I listened to, it may have been different. If someone helped me see how I was psychologically damaged and how it made me choose less competent partners - maybe it would have been different. But the choice per se is usually a culmination of what we are by nature and what we have become by nurture, and it’s often too late to say anything. She is choosing this guy because she thinks, rightly or not, that he is what she deserves. And lets me very clear, she may be right[/quote]
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