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[quote=Anonymous]I accidentally found out my close friend I know for decades is having an affair, I know the lover who is from our friend's circle. I am not sure how to handle it logistically as I am compelled to distance myself from this and withdraw. I don't want to play the game, the family is close to us and we hang out a lot. The "lover" is also a part of our bigger friend circle.. Which makes things awkward and psychologically draining for me and the older kids who know what's going on. I decided boundaries are needed, I ghosted the "lover" and excluded from any gatherings. I don't know how to bring this up to the friend and I definitely do not want to meddle into their family life, it's a burden and I don't really know how to get it off my chest. am I being selfish? I just don't have mental and psychological strength to deal with it as I am having a lot of other things in my life and on my plate dragging me down..[/quote]
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