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Reply to "I don’t think it’s love."
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[quote=Anonymous]You can love but have low attunement conditioning and abilities. The things you are describing are how someone feels seen and heard. Have you talked to him about it? If he isn’t defensive and is open minded it could go really well. It’ll be slow changing but just being understood in your needs will increase connection between you two. If he is defensive it is still possible but will just take more work and likely time. You’ll need to learn how best to approach defensiveness and that it’s really about insecurity so speaking to him in a way to feels secure to him (basically affirmation and validation etc… same with anxious types). This is emotional intimacy in a form and we don’t all possess it whether from lack of modeling or other issues.[/quote]
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