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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"she has a right on him"?  What does that even mean?  Were you ok with supporting them before?  NOW he has to check with you?  Sounds like a ton of enabling behavior going on[/quote]

I was never okay with him committing to give them money on a whim. They would call and cry and pressure him so he would agree and tell me later. We had fights about how this just makes me feel insignificant in our relationship so he is trying to change. He is trying to send them the message that our money is not just ‘his’ money and we are in a partnership so we need to discuss before we agree to give someone money. So he tried to do this for the first time. When he told her that, she called me too to try to convince me. I don’t like the pressure and it was awkward. We gave it. And now she is showing that she is upset with this change that money decisions will also involve me.. and he is not going to do whatever she commands.. so she kept emphasizing that she has a right on him meaning that why do u need to check with your wife. Its your money and I am your mother and I have a right on you.[/quote]

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