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[quote=Anonymous]Say positive things about ex and his partner to DS, even thought they suck. Make sure your son has pictures of his dad. They are trying to make him choose and the healthiest thing for DS happens to also be the way to win- you are his ultimate safe place and he doesn’t have to choose. I would talk with him about the difference between secrets and surprises. 5 year olds should not have secrets from their parents. Don’t bring it up in the context of his dad. The bed wetting may very well be regression due to stress. One of the issues that you will face is this will be twisted against you- he doesn’t have problems at Dad’s, so clearly dad should have more custody! You need to tread very carefully because often children will let the stress out with the safer parent.[/quote]
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