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[quote=Anonymous]My brother hasn't spoken to me in 5 years. He's angry he grew up with a single mom and sisters, and I was basically his parent at age 9 when my parents divorced. My dad recently died and it's bringing up drama with his 3rd wife.

I'm fine with my brother cutting me off, and I don't harbor ill will. It's made my life easier. He hasn't seen any family members in person for years and didn't see my dad on his deathbed, though he'll call and text.

I'm struggling now because he recently said some horrible things about me and no one in my family has said now or ever, "You're wrong about Larla." I'm finding that I'm suddenly very angry at my mom and sisters and my dad's wife for never defending me. I understand they're afraid of getting cut off, but I can't help feeling that that means they put him first. The things he said are not opinion, more like provable in a courtroom. Everyone would and has said he is the problem. We've tip-toed around him for 35+ years. Yet, they stay silent.

I'm the one who has cared for everyone, spent $$ money on them, and generally been the go-to person when everyone has problems. WWYD? Or, perspective?[/quote]

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