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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it brings up a lot of complicated feelings. Weddings have always been traditionally family event with two families coming together and a new family starting. But a few years ago, there was a change to make everything perfect, Instagram worthy and aspirational so out with imperfect kids. I also think it goes hand-in-hand with parents, not parenting their kids which is a huge incentive to not have kids at a wedding. Personally, I would rather have kids at my wedding, then have a perfect wedding, and I would definitely rather be inclusive of kids than lose and alienate family members. Likewise family members should understand when a couple chooses to only have an adult only ceremony and not break relationships because they can’t bring their kids [/quote] It's definitely the instagram effect. People would rather spend the money on a videographer or better flowers than their guests or pay for kids.[/quote]
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