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[quote=Anonymous]None of these people do it to everyone, or at least not to the same extent. It's always part of an "in group/out group" thing. If you feel you are consistently targeted by people like this, then they are consistently identifying something about you. You can accept it, ignore it, leave when it happens, or try to develop in a way that makes you less of a target -- but you can't change them, and getting your feelings knotted up in the situation just makes it worse. I'm not saying it's right. I'm saying that what you have control over is you. You can accept and deal, leave, or change. Talking about how mean it is at places like here may make you feel briefly better, but it changes nothing. Sad but true. Mean people exist. [/quote]
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