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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH And I have had our ups and downs in the past 15 years and marriage. Overall we figure it out But there have been some ongoing issues that we have been on able to resolve.

Specifically, He becomes very defense if about certain topics (money, his parents and a few others). We are talking something as simple as a question like, are we planning to visit your parents over the holidays can cause an issue. When these topics get brought up he either explodes verbally or completely shuts down. He is unable to see his behavior around these topics and even trying to discuss it is triggering for him. So little progress has been made and I just know certain topics are not ones that we can discuss as adults.

Well he blew up over one of these conversations over Christmas and it is like a switch flipped in me and now I feel completely indifference towards him. I'm not even mad or sad or hurt like usual,  I just literally feel nothing.

Is there any way to come back from this feeling or is this a sign its over?[/quote] You say you feel nothing. I suspect you feel contempt towards him, which is not the same as anger/malice. I don't know about you but I have realized that once my ex and I started feeling contempt towards each other, it was all over. It just took far too long to realize it.[/quote]

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