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[quote=Anonymous]My best friend is like this (single, no kids). I love her and know that she is probably depressed or socially anxious, so I don't bother getting mad or snarky. But, without saying, I have drawn myself an invisible boundary -- I don't make plans in the evenings with her, because then if she no shows I have wasted an evening I could have been socializing with someone. I also don't preference her over my own family or kids. I'll see her during the day on the weekend, somewhere locally for lunch or coffee. No explanation needed. That's when I'm available. If she suggests something else, I usually say I've got plans already. [/quote]
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