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[quote=Anonymous]What are your expectations of him as a coparent? Based on how well you know him now, would meeting those expectations be a change from how he currently approaches his life? Eg, do you expect him to notice when a diaper needs to be changed and change it, including properly disposing of the dirty diaper and knowing where clean diapers are? Does he currently notice when the trash needs to be taken out, including putting a new bag in the can? You mention that he isn’t ambitious. I’m not sure if you mean that he isn’t ambitious professionally, or that he’s not motivated personally. If he is a passive person, you should expect a passive coparent. If you expect him to be the primary parent because you expect to take on more of the earning responsibilities, then consider the extent to which he is engaged or involved in any activities. How are his executive functioning skills? Does he plan things and follow through? How does he spend his free time?[/quote]
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