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[quote=Anonymous]  I know this is an uncomfortable question. Is there a person you can hire to coordinate and speak to all parties when a mostly pre-planned/pre-paid funeral needs to come together? We have one sibling with likely untreated mental illness who is highly controlling, manipulative, dramatic, etc. We convinced our parent to let us know wishes in advance in writing and we prepaid for most things so that part is carved in stone. Sibling will not take over if we let her have all control, there is just this addictive need to create chaos. Parent is still alive, but fading and we need to plan for this because we will be emotionally exhausted enough when parent passes. We need someone to coordinate all communication who is a neutral party. This person can incorporate siblings reasonable ideas, contact those who need to know about funeral (simple task through email, etc, but sibling will create drama over how it is done). make sure all pre-paid plans are in order, coordinate anyone who wants to speak and be there the day of to keep things running smoothly. We just need a professional neutral party who has experience with dysfunction. Does such a job exist?[/quote]

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