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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I went through this in 4th grade, but it was really intense, complete with horrible nicknames and getting punched repeatedly.  A friend that I knew from the riding stables apologized for snubbing me at the swimming pool, saying, "I'm sorry, but, you know. (Insert horrible nickname here.)"

I would take others' advice and really try to get to the bottom of this, because the effects can really be brutal.[/quote]

I've tried talking to her more but it mostly devolves into tears where she says the popular girl who doesn't like her is mean and pretends she's not there.  I think this other girl has a lot of influence and other kids want to be in with her, so maybe that travels over to other friend groups.  DD says she is alone at recess with the odd day when another girl will come talk to her, that other girls won't let her into their "club" to play, so she is asking to stay at home and just read books.  When similar complaints came up last year I asked the teacher to see if she noticed anything and keep an eye on things (but today my daughter said I should have never mentioned it to the teacher because the teacher essentially outed her in class by naming the other girl and saying loudly to let her know if the other girl was being mean).  So she has asked me not to raise the issue with the teacher or other parents.  I really don't know how to get to the bottom of it.  Feeling pretty powerless at the moment to help.

PP who was bullied - did you tell your parents?  Did they know the extent of it?  Did you ask them to pull you from school and your parents ignored it?[/quote]

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