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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is he the eldest son? Usually the expectations are the the eldest son has the prime responsibility for caring for aging parents. Hence his guilt and sense of obligation. I think it's reasonable to point out your concerns, especially for his health. But he'd still want to visit and that's a normal desire. What you don't want is the haphazard nature of these drop everything and go last minute trips. It's better to have regularly scheduled visits, say once a year or every other year, to see his parents. That way it's predictable and planned in advance, and he'd be visiting when they're in relative health, instead of during a crisis. And only go there unplanned when it's a true emergency.[/quote] He does yearly travel as well. Did two every year but with their aging issues and his own health issues, only does one scheduled one and one whenever there is a crisis.[/quote]
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