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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - Have you ever just considered a surrogate? Just curious.[/quote] OP here. I have, very seriously. But I think it would be harder because I would quite possibly have to go off my meds to harvest the eggs, and it could end up being a lot more expensive -- I've been told to budget up to $50K for adoption and $100K for adoption. We could scrape it together but that's money that could go into both kids' college funds. And also I guess I don't see the need to take such extreme measures to bring a baby into the world when there are already babies here who need loving homes. NOOOO judgment on anyone who chooses surrogacy -- it's a wonderful thing, and to be honest we haven't totally written it off, depending on what we determine are our chances with adoption. We're just at the beginning of this whole process. I'm encouraged by the responses on here, though. [/quote]
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