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I don't have a dog in that game. I have a very different life, and that's not really in my life vocabulary.

However, I think it's about what goes with this matrix, not really the goods themselves. There's a ladder of accepted things and ways to be. If you march up that ladder in pretty much perfect order, one of two things is true:

1. You just happen to be naturally drawn to this particular ladder of an aesthetic, regardless of anything else, and in remarkably exact detail

2. You are deliberately making those choices (as PP said, it's a real commitment) and for whatever reason, buy into this very rigid hierarchy of what is acceptable. Maybe you want to win, maybe you want to fit in and not get hurt, or maybe it's something else -- but you buy into it, live it, and promote it by engaging in it. And that's fine, but people who would rather see more diversity and acceptance of a less rigid and hierarchical social structure are not going to be drawn to you.

But that's for the women who are checking off all the tick-tack boxes in a row. More power to them, but it's not my thing. I like a different style of being in the world, and that's fine, too. [/quote]

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