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[quote=Anonymous]Two of my adult kids aren't close, and I can understand why, because they're polar opposites in how they see and approach the world. They are polite and respectful at family gatherings, similar to how you describe your interactions with your sibling. Since nothing else has worked, I suggest trying the direct approach. You can always say the truth with kindness. "Mom, you frequently suggest I get together with Larla. The truth is that we're not very close, and we've both accepted it. I'd appreciate it if you'd stop encouraging me to contact her." Or smile and nod, which is a perfectly good option, though you'll be smiling and nodding a whole lot.[/quote]
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