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[quote=Anonymous]I am (for a variety of reasons) very low contact with one of my siblings. They don't like me (nor does their spouse), I don't like them, and we all know it, but we are ALWAYS cordial at family events, because it means a lot to my parents.

My mom is constantly making comments insinuating I should try and build more of a relationship with this person, for example:

"Larlo and Jane mentioned they wanted to visit [near where you live], you should give them a call and invite them to stay with you!"

"Last time I talked to Larlo, they mentioned wanting to do [insert activity], next time we all get together, you should go do [activity] together."

"Larlo just got a new job, you should call and congratulate them" (FWIW, I find out about all major life events for my siblings via their spouse's FB, including their pregnancy).

I have no interest in a relationship with this person and want my mom to accept this, but I know it would hurt her to be so direct. Is there a subtle way to get these comments to stop?
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