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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My close friend just learned that her partner is cheating on her. She is very sad, not wanting to get out of bed, etc. How do I support her without overstepping and being in the way? I am the only person she has told about it. She hasn’t made any decisions yet on next steps. [/quote] Can you start asking around for attorney recommendations for her so that if/when she's ready to take that step you can say "here are 5 attorneys you could speak with." It sucks to be blindsided. My discovery unraveled in slow motion so when I finally got confirmation I was able to not take to my bed but it is so deeply painful. She probably doesn't want to hear right now that he's a POS so unless she says it, don't bring it up. See if she will go have lunch or dinner with you or just get out of the house and go for a walk. And just be there as a supportive ear. Check in regularly. You are a thoughtful friend.[/quote]
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