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[quote=Anonymous]He is 8. I assume this is rec and not a team he tried out for. The whole point of rec is that anyone who signs up can play. If his coach or teammates insinuate or outright tell him he is dragging them down, it’s not a good team for you.

I have one kid who has logged many seasons as the worst kid on a rec baseball team and yet his friends still want him to sign up and play. It is hard as a parent to watch your kid struggle, but no parent is watching my kid as much as I am. My kid does not care - so any angst I have about him being the “worst” kid is all mine.

My other kid recently started “travel lite” soccer and he is one of the weaker players. His technical skills are good, but he is not aggressive in game situations and he is very self conscious about being the youngest kid on the team because of his birthday. That kid is harder because he cares and he wants to be good, but instead of being motivated to “keep up”, he shuts down and feels embarrassed. I feel like I am a part time sports psychologist with him. [/quote]

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