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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not everything needs to be taken personally as though it was meant to offend you. [/quote] Except it's close family and we've brought it up with them a couple of times in years past already because I do not like it. I don't think it's MEANT to offend me. And I'm not offended. I'm irritated. [/quote] I'm sorry they intend to irritate you. But I don't think that's typical behavior. I address my cards to however the person prefers to be addressed. My aunt didn't take my uncle's last name, but they like being Mr. and Mrs. <Husband's Last>-<Wife's Last> even though that's not actually either of their names. It's how they sign their own letters/cards. Most people do the same.[/quote] "I address my cards to however the person prefers to be addressed." I have told them multiple times I like to be addressed by my own name And first of all, in this year of the lord no most people are not preferring to be called Mrs husband's first name. And second of all, that is specifically not how I like to be addressed. Which they know. And just don't bother updating in their little spreadsheet. It would take exactly 30 seconds to fix this. [/quote]
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