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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think its weird he still hangs out with her kids tbh, but I guess 6 years is a long time that he was in their life.

I think meeting her and seeing them interact might give you some answers. I err on the side of trust and believing your partner, but that doesn't mean you'll always feel safe and secure. If you are feeling insecure about her/them, do you feel like you can talk to him? Sometimes just asking for some reassurance can go a long way, and his reaction when you ask for that is telling too. A kind smile and a hug vs rolling of eyes and getting huffy about having to defend himself.  [/quote]

I'm very understanding of the role that he played in their lives for many years and I don't mind him having contact with the kids at all.  I agree that perhaps by meeting everyone, it would help me understand the dynamic a bit more.  I do feel that I can talk to him about my feelings (insecurities) about the situation and he is very understanding and caring.  It bothers him as well and he definitely reassures me.  I absolutely trust him and feel his love for me, but I also feel that this will be an almost never-ending issue in our lives.  Perhaps it would be different if she found a new partner.  [/quote]

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