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[quote=Anonymous]I think some people have delusional ideas about what must be done for their death. I knew one family where the difficult father expected to have his body shipped to another state and buried near his brother and he thought anyone who wanted to say their goodbyes would travel for a ceremony. The adult children worked full time, didn't get along, had their own major struggles, children to raise and no time for all of that. He wanted a certain type of ceremony and assumed all his elderly friends would some how transport themselves to another state for it. Many of his friends were unable to walk and/or had dementia. In a case like that, sorry, you have passed. If you can't be realistic then either pay a service to carry out your wishes. The adult siblings agreed on nothing except they were not going to do backflips for a deceased father they had to bite their tongue to have any relationship with at all. [/quote]
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