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[quote=Anonymous]My friend is living with her boyfriend in a house they own together. She has a 2yo, he has twin 5yos. I just found out that they are trying for a baby. Here’s the thing: neither will help with childcare for the other. Example: He is stuck at work and needs someone to watch his 5yos. He scrambles to find someone even though she is home, claiming “it’s not her responsibility”, and vice versa. She recently had to skip something because she had to skip and event because she had no one to watch her 2yo. Her reasoning was that “it’s not his responsibility.” But my question is, there’s no way this will work out in the long term, right? Let’s say they have this baby. What happens when someone is held over at work? The parent will watch their shared child, but they’ll have to find someone else to watch the other child(ren)? They have no plans for marriage, as of right now. I’m just wondering if I should have a talk with my friend before she makes a huge mistake. [/quote]
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