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[quote=Anonymous]Anyone else really hold on to grudges? I’m not talking for small things, but the bigger things. I’m a generally tolerant person (I think) in that I don’t have the sort of mindset where I get easily offended or demand a lot from my friends/relatives/partners on a day to day basis. But if something big happens that flips the switch for me - I’m just DONE with that person. Like, does not matter if there’s some explanation for their behavior (they were “under stress” or whatever), that’s just it for me.

In these scenarios I have been encouraged by others to “talk to them, tell them how you feel” but the grudge and lack of trust are so strong as to make that almost make me want to vomit. I would need them to come to me and show they were safe before I did that.

Can anyone else relate?

I should add, this isn’t a huge issue in my life. I have close friends, a good relationship with my boss and coworkers, etc. I’m not out getting mad at everyone and suing the dry cleaner lol. But these are painful situations. [/quote]

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