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[quote=Anonymous]Dysfunctional family systems will do anything to try to preserve the big family gathering and pretend things are fine. You now know they are not going to be supportive. Just detach from the problematic person and if they rest of the family tries to push you together maintain silent boundaries. Let them have their denial. Show no emotion. Just say "no, I won't be going to Lulu's house." When they tell you Lulu has been through a lot and she is just a victim, just show no emotion and either make an excuse to go to the bathroom or change the subject.[/quote]
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