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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is not a lack of affection issue. This is disrespecting personal boundary issue.

If he insists on coming to bed late and waking you up, then I'd either kick him to the guest room or move to another room myself. [/quote]

OP here. I wish. We have a 4 bedroom house and 3 kids. No spare beds.

Part of the problem is that I do feel guilty, I guess. Even when he does go to sleep at the same time as me, I don’t really want him touching me as I fall asleep (lol that sounds so bad but ever since having the kids and having to get up multiple times a night for years, I have sleep problems. My biggest issue is falling asleep. I need things to be just so wrt light, noise, temperature etc.).

Ideally, I would be able to fall asleep with him spooning me. I mean, that’s what everyone wants out of marriage right? Lots of physical and emotional intimacy. But I get too hot nowadays for it. I used to be able to pre-baby and I’m sure he misses that. But what can I do? Just start getting less sleep? I feel physically unwell when I don’t get enough.[/quote]

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