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[quote=khalid] Come here dear friend, do you pretty much feel you have a cheating spouse or a cheating partner? It’s a bad feeling, sort of like a gut punch – but one that lasts. Of course, you don’t want to confront your partner if it’s not true. So, if you think your partner is cheating, you may need to become a bit of a detective to find all the secrets out. But before you hire a detective agency and begin time-consuming and costly investigation, let’s unpack those red flags that may cause your suspicion. Clarity about them may be enough for you to see the truth. First Signs You’re Dealing with a Cheating Partner Since cheating is cloaked in secrecy, the person is doing their best not to arouse suspicion in their partner. The cheater’s goal is to not get caught and then have to deal with the consequences. They strive to make everything appear normal.” Watch for changes in your partner’s behavior. Cheating partners will adopt secretive activities or change their schedules and other things. Here are some key signs of strange behavior from an unfaithful partner: Changed appearance: This may mean they buy new clothes, get a new hairstyle, and start tanning. Or just, in general, become more conscious of their appearance. Suddenly worrying about body image: They start dieting, join a gym, or buy supplements. These actions are supposed to help them lose weight, build muscle, etc. Schedule changes: They’re suddenly working long hours, complaining that all of a sudden they have to work more because of big projects or an unreasonable boss. Response delays: They don’t answer your calls or messages as quickly as they used to. And when you do call, you often get their voicemail instead of them. Higher criticism: They begin to “nick-pick” about your flaws. Sex life changes: They don’t seem to want sex as often as usual, or sex becomes more perfunctory like they are performing an obligation. This change in sexual interest may mean they are getting their needs met elsewhere too. More security concerns: They change the security settings on their phone or computer so you no longer have access. This is a huge red flag as they obviously have things to hide. Most cheaters will be hiding their digital footprint from you. Hiding the phone: They put away their phone when you come physically near or hide the call log. They don’t want you to see where they have been and whom they talked to. These and many more are signs of a cheating partner and it is advised not to ignore. It is okay to suspect your partner, be 100 percent sure [/quote]
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