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[quote=Anonymous]I met someone online (not OLD-just in a discussion). We got to chatting about that topic and then it quickly spiraled into talking about everything under the sun. I have NEVER laughed so hard or been as inspired as when I talk to him.

He's 5 years older than me and is the most intelligent person I've ever had the pleasure of consistently talking to. Just so well read, traveled, educated, and his EQ seems even higher than his IQ. He has shown me so much support and kindness over the last few months that even my closest friends didn't match. This is all fantastic except...I'm not physically attracted to him. He's clean, well dressed, etc but just not my typical type and is the same height as me/a decent amount overweight/balding without facial hair so he looks significantly older. I understand this sounds vain- just being honest because I want honest feedback. Should I pursue this? I've never felt a personality connection like this in my life. I find his personality, sense of humor, intelligence, love for his family SO attractive. I get butterflies when we talk and cannot stop thinking about our thought provoking conversations. But it's just not there in person. We've only met once, but he asked me out again tomorrow (for the most thoughtful date in the world based on something I told him a while ago) and idk if I should say yes or not.

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