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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We need more details, OP. Is there an age gap? Are either of you married? Is it just office chit chat or is there texting, SM interaction?[/quote]

OP - He is a C-level, 10 years older, he is married and he knows I’m in a serious relationship. Chit chat is fine, we both have kids that are similar ages and can talk about things like kids, sports, hobbies.

I’ve just observed he takes what I mention in regards to these light topics and starts projecting other traits on me - I must believe xyz if I do xyz. He doesn’t do this to my other coworker, and he teases me more, which makes me feel like there is an attraction. As C-level and pretty straitlaced he is a rule follower so I don’t feel unsafe. But I want to avoid saying something that could end up hurting our work relationship. As an attractive younger woman I feel like I need to be more careful than men would need to. My office does socialize outside of work, he and I have only ever socialized in large groups, I’ve met and like his wife. [/quote]

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