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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Totally agree! Everyone has lost sight of why we signed our kids up for a team sport in the first place. Fun, teamwork and self-confidence... Now it seems like we're spending a lot of time/money to put them in a cut-throat environment that is a negative to their mental health and self-confidence.[/quote] OP- this is exactly it. I feel that my DC is playing well, playing at the highest level available, but...is losing self-worth, confidence, and I see the shut down mentally and emotionally because of favoritism and biased BS that should not be like this. I want my kid to be a team player, learn from coaches, receive constructive criticism and learn how to overcome challenges, because we all know life is not fair. But this is exhausting. They have the rest of their lives to work and be in a cut throat environment where everyone is out for themselves. I hate that it has come to this before it needs too.[/quote] Six years into this, I initially didn't have throwing them in a pit of vipers year-round in the cards either but here we are. Just trying make the best of and hoping for the best.[/quote]
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