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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well I refuse to tell anyone I had breast cancer. If people are not guenuinly invested in me why would I open up with something so personal? you don't get to demand to know what's she's going through to prove she's not manipulating you into caring about her. Be better OP [/quote] But are you telling people “you’re going through a lot” and leaving them guessing? Probably not. I’ve been dealing with some stuff this year, and I also haven’t told anyone. But they don’t know any better, and if I’m having a bad day and look tired, become short, etc, I don’t say “be gentle, I’m going through a lot”, I have a generic excuse ready to appease everyone. “I know, I haven’t been sleeping well. My dog keeps waking up/I can’t get my room cool enough/I think I need a new pillow/I’ve been staying up too late watching old movies…” Don’t be passive aggressive. [/quote]
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