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Reply to "If you chose to stay after infidelity, what did the next few months look like?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I’m two months out and have chosen to stay and work things out. He is in therapy and putting in the effort. I was initially devastated, but have made peace. I suppose I’m someone who believes this isn’t the worst thing that a marriage could suffer, but at the same time, I wonder if I’m in denial. (My therapist doesn’t think so, she thinks I’m just open minded.) I had to make peace with it and while I wouldn’t say I have swept it under the rug, it’s not something I can pain shop and remind myself about daily. I chose to stay, I chose to work on trusting again, and he’s willingly doing his part. So what now? It feels like this strange purgatory. What does moving on look like? When does your “new normal” actually become normal?[/quote]
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