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[quote=Anonymous]Any relationship with either is toxic. The two together must be extra toxic.
I'm secure and always have been, but they almost turned me into anxious as I had no idea what was happening.
After watching thousands of videos, I feel like I know exactly what I'm dealing with. I went back to being secure me - haven't seen them in a month and before that was another month before. They are acting busy right now working their butt off trying to pay bills.
I think you are the anxious one or you wouldn't be writing here. What about you work on becoming and avoidant. They would be relieved and come around soon.Give them space. They will come back if the relationship was good. Mine is going nowhere, but being apart that long, got me forget about them slowly. We saw each other only about twice a month before and even that was too much when he lost his job and had million other things going on.
Anxious is hard. I would feel so smothered. Its like being tied up for avoidant.
The way I even found such thing existed, is a little bit of googling and Facebook sent me video after video.
The only thing missing was an excuse, but I even got that out of they when they got drunk. The dumbest crap ever as they ran before that thing they blame it all on even happened. They didn't think to check timeline.
Good luck.[/quote]

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