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[quote=Anonymous]My mother doesn't have dementia. She's only 75 and lives independently at her multimillion dollar home. She's not at all vulnerable. Just mean and abusive. Giving her money away to good causes will help other people and won't hurt her one bit once she's dead. When she eventually needs help at home, she will need hired help, who will mostly be POC where she lives. She will berate them a d treat them limb crap, not because of dementia or old age, but because she's a mean racist. I could lie to her aides and blame it on nonexistent dementia, or say, "Well, that's just how she's always been." I'm not going to lie for her to cover up her sins. She will be well cared for and her only suffering will be what she brings on herself. Some of you have either never seen real racism or else really are looking for ways to justify gross bigotry. Oooops....I think I just figured it out. 🤷🏼♀️[/quote]
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