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[quote=Anonymous]Why do you label her a narcissist? Very few people are actually narcissists, but reading DCUM, you'd think 40% of everyone's Mom, MIL, or SIL is one. Sometimes people are just very selfish or mean or intentionally cruel or immature. Which is objectively bad! All the psychobabble and amateur diagnosing and throwing around of terms like "gray rock" that we've all earned in the past 10 years is so cringe and wholly unecessary. We do not have to constantly label people with rare diagnoses to be allowed to not want to associate with them. You can be justified in your distancing from someone because they are mean and selfish. Someone can be very sick without Stage IV cancer. A kid can be worthy and smart without being a genius with high IQ. Let's stop exaggerating! Unless, of course, you have access to her medical records, OP. Rant over. Anyway, yes, your MIL is probably clueless as to why people don't like her and plays the victim. [/quote]
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