Reply to When I try to build a closer relationship with sibling, he distances himself

Forum Index » Family Relationships

Reply to "When I try to build a closer relationship with sibling, he distances himself "

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some people and, especially men, can't deal with death.  He doesn't want the pain of knowing and losing your son.

But also some people just suck. My brother hasn't ever visited me in 40 years and he didn't attend my wedding. [/quote]

Op here. The diagnosis for my kid is new, though. But this dynamic didn’t just start. It’s been going on for years.

I know it’s not unusual for siblings to have limited or no relationship. I guess what I can’t reconcile is that he does call me often and it feels as if we DO have a close relationship. Except when I try to actually see him.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m glad we are able to talk on the phone. I just wish it could be more.

[/quote]

Call it what it is. He's a selfish, self centered ass and you provide support for him while he gives you 0. Stop talking to him. Stop supporting him. It's completely unacceptable that he nothings your child. He is a worthless human being and I assume you were brought up in a family where women are expected to provide support while receiving no care or concern.

Woman up. He isn't worth 2 seconds of your time. 
[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics