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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why do you need to have him served w papers if it is an amicable divorce?[/quote]

NP. Try to read with better comprehension. OP says she is "trying to keep it amicable." That is not at all the same thing as "an amicable divorce" already settled on both sides. And the many PPs here assuming it's easy just to "hammer out" an agreeement, as one person puts it, are being pretty naive; sometimes, one spouse puts their head in the sand and will do absolutely nothing at all until the other spouse has to force the issue by serving papers. That might be OP's case here but everyone's assuming otherwise.

OP, talk to your attorney ASAP, so that the server doesn't just go to his workplace, if you truly want to avoid that. The attorney surely has dealt with this before--?

Is he, as I suspect from your post, resisting even discussing divorce, and that's why you have to have him served? I'm sorry. The fact that you are trying to keep it amicable sounds to me as if you're a bit afraid of how he'll react if has any heads-up that you are filing for divorce. I hope that soon you won't have to walk on eggshells any more, if that's what's going on now. Ignore the knee-jerk PPs here who insist that your'e just into drama; they love to bash whatever is outside their own personal experience or understanding. [/quote]

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