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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I asked DH to read over an article I wrote for our company newsletter.  He yelled at me about how busy he is.

Later in the day, I told him that I didn’t like being yelled at and that I felt emotionally overwhelmed.  DH replied that I’m the one who wanted kids.  I told him that my wanting kids doesn’t make it okay for him to yell at me.

DH yells at me about once a month.  I am tired of it.

I work for a non-profit and make $55k/yr.  I live in a high SES area with a good school district.  My kids are at the top of their classes.  I don’t want to move, so I can’t get divorced.  I don’t know what to do.

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Do not say you can not get divorced.  This just is not true.  You need to leave.  And what does the high SES area in a good school district have to do with anything? You are scared and I get it.

Attend a divorce 101 class (google it one is offered online on a regular basis by Carol Randolph), look at the Montgomery County commission for women (MD) website and attend more than one of their divorce seminars and ask questions of the attorney who presents; if in Montgomery County, call the court house and ask to speak with the free attorneys they provide for lower income individuals; they will help you free of charge and they know the law.  This has to be offered in other counties too.  Educate  yourself. Join an online divorcecare group and go.  I know it's really  hard and you have been brow beaten into submission.  And, do this for yourself and your children.[/quote]

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