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[quote=Anonymous]I don’t think him yelling and throwing things is abuse or gaslighting. I don’t like the punching the wall thing. Op did not say any of this was projected towards her. If it is projected to her, it is abuse. It sounds like his emotional regulation is not great, but as other people noted, some families deal with anger and frustration through raised voices. It may be jarring to people outside those families. Tv goes out on game day? Some people are going to raise their voices and yell some pissed off swear words. But that’s super different than yelling swear words at op. I wouldn’t like to be with someone who yells, and op sounds like she doesn’t either. So probably should move on. But don’t go around painting him as abusive or even worse, a gaslighter. Because he’s not those things (assuming again that his anger is not directed at op). [/quote]
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