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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Dh and I seperated off and on years ago[/b]. At one point we reconciled and a woman he had been dating claimed to be pregant with his child.
She contacted him immediately after birth and he told her if she wanted money she had to have a paternity test and that we wanted custody.
The baby is now 12. He was served for support last week.
I hate him.
Our youngest is 16. I'm not sure I can wait 2 more years to go.[/quote]

I am not sure what this means.  Some people agree they can date when separated, which to me is a terrible idea.  Was this your agreement?  Right now you are in a state of shock because your entire world has been turned upside down.  But you need to think long term.  Why do you hate him?  Is there more to this story?  Were you planning to leave in two years anyway?  [/quote]

We were seperated. I moved in with my parents and the kids.
He dated people both times. I didn't not that the first time we got back together and I had our second.
He said the baby wasn't his but it looks just like her with accents him. I also saw the email where she told him she hadn't dated anybody else . She also asked him if he had told me about the other woman from our last separation and her twins. He denied dating anybody else then but admitted it in counseling.
He swears he didn't think the baby was his. When she didn't contact us again I believed him.
There is no reason for her to do this now unless he is the father and she needs help.
I hate him because he ruined our family
I hate him because he abandoned that baby
I hate him because I believed him[/quote]

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