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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You're saying no to everything your sister proposes. So what plan do you actually think is good? If you want to protect your relationship with your sister, come to the table with something other than "no no no, me me me".[/quote] Yep. Unfortunately, if you want to maintain your relationship, then you have to "give" in some way. Most people don't like it. And it is in time and/or money. And I will tell you, this is going to be a huge burden on your sister. You are only at the beginning. If she is already asking for help, if you give none, then she will absolutely come to resent you. This isn't just a house question. What kind of assets does your mom have? Does she own a house? Is there anything to sell or use to support her? Long term care insurance?[/quote]
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