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[quote=Anonymous]I am sorry OP.

I have a twin and we haven't talked in a long time.  She is a narcissist with mental health issues.  She was also abusive as a child and I had to be the "people pleaser" because I knew my mom (dad died) couldn't handle two difficult children.

It is sad, but it is what it is.  Just because you have siblings won't necessarily mean they will be close.

I also only have one child and sometimes wish I had another, but then I think about my sibling and realize nothing is a guarantee in life.  I am grateful for my only (even though they ask for a sibling too), we travel a lot more (less $ for tickets), save more for retirement, 529s, have lots of friends who turned into family, etc.

What hurt is we tried a few times and after I had my child when I went through it I would get a pouch and people would assume I was pregnant and congratulate me or ask when I was due(even women and once a friend who is a doctor).  That bothered me more that people feel they can comment on people's bodies and people thought I must have more than one child.

Anyway, sorry OP.  Try to think positively if you can.  Or do a little cry in the shower once in awhile.  *hug*[/quote]

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