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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t have a single happy memory of my mother. I’m assuming this is somewhat rare even for people abused like I was. I’m in my 40’s and have a great family myself now. If you did grow up with a horrible mother, do you still have happy memories? I just have a deep resentment and hatred towards her and nothing else. [/quote]

She gave you life so you could be grateful for this.  [b]Chances are good that at least one of your children will feel the same about you [/b]as you feel about your mother. If you think your resentment was ND hatred of your mother hasn't been obvious to your children then you are delusional.  [/quote]
I highly doubt that. It's people like you, who cannot recognize abuse, who will continue the cycle. I'm a dp who isn't grateful for being born. In fact, I'd rather have not be born only to be a target of abuse. That is sick in the head to think anyone should be grateful to an abuser. By understanding that we were abused and that it was wrong and certainly undeserved, we can work to not visit that abuse on anyone else.[/quote]

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