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Reply to "Is it okay to cheat in a marriage where you feel you were emotionally abused?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In my opinion, people are responsible for their own actions. Your poor behavior can never be a justification for his affair. The opposite view is infantilizing - it suggests grown adults are unable to navigate their own lives and just enact patterns of behavior based on outside stimuli. What a disempowering way to live. He needs to fully account for his behavior and that is was morally wrong and unjustifiable. You are also, separately, responsible for your actions. [b]They aren’t nearly as serious in my book but you can admit that they were hurtful and that you can improve your communication and compassion[/b].[/quote] Were OP’s actions not as serious? According to her, DH had an emotional affair. This could run the gamut from an intense friendship to something like sexting. She, on the other hand, admits she openly showed him contempt and compared him to other people for years on end. Who is worse? Not clear.[/quote]
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