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[quote=Anonymous]My husband has cheated on me a few times in our marriage. He justifies it by saying I deserved it as I was emotionally abusive and treated him poorly. He found it very stressful and demoralizing that I kept asking for him to make more money and plan for our married life. He said I compared him to his more successful friends and yes, I did. I kept using them as examples of what he could do to help us get set up...I thought I was using them as guiding posts he thought I was putting him down. I was also jealous of our friends who had more money. He would feel bad about himself...After 3 years of this he started cheating on me. This was devastating to me as I loved him so much and I begged for him to not leave me...and here we are still together. I still feel awful about being cheated on but he says I can't hold those over him as it was essentially my fault that he cheated.[/quote]
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